Throughout history, flowers have been associated with two things: love and secrecy. Ancient Romans painted roses on the ceilings of their banquet halls to remind guests that secrets were shared sub pink or “under the rose” were intended to be kept confidential. The association between flowers and secrecy continued in the Middle Ages, when a rose was hung over a conference table where private matters were discussed.

Today, an anonymous flower gift combines love and secrecy in a way that is guaranteed to delight its recipient. The mystery of receiving a dozen red roses from an anonymous admirer is sure to set your gift apart from the rest if it is your loved one’s birthday or a holiday where she will receive many gifts.

Even if you don’t include your name on the gift card that comes with your flowers, you should include a heartfelt message explaining why you sent the bouquet. Consider sending a message with a suggestive suggestion of who you are, but not enough to reveal who you are. If you like, choose a romantic moment later in the day to tell your loved one that you are their secret admirer.

Anonymous flower gifts are also lovely for someone in your life who deserves an extra gift. If someone has been working hard, seemingly without warning, an anonymous thank you bouquet will make them feel appreciated. In a case like this, the anonymous gift is an extra special reminder that your efforts are getting noticed.

Move along. Be someone’s secret admirer today!