At first glance, Fleshlight adult toys seem pretty simple – an extension of your hand that feels a bit more like realistic sex, but not as big, bulky, and difficult to hide as an inflatable doll! However, there are a lot of new discoveries to be made inside those little specially formulated silicone tubes … if you recently bought a Fleshlight adult toy or are thinking about it, here is everything you need to know about the Fleshlight.

Buying a Fleshlight Adult Toy

Many handheld vagina or anal sex simulators are called Fleshlights, although ‘Fleshlight’ is actually a particular brand. If you are looking to buy one of these toys, take a look at the adult toys section for men in general, don’t search by name alone.


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Look for toys made from Cyberskin or ‘realistic touch’ silicone – there is an amazing difference between these and standard old silicone!

You’ll also notice that some are made in the style of a flashlight, while others have a flat base to help you ‘mount’ the toy to a surface for hands-free operation (“Hey look, no hands!”). The mountable ones may cost a bit more, but you can get the same effect as a handheld one by placing it between the mattress and the base, or between two sofa cushions.

Preparing and Using Your Fleshlight Adult Toy

Proper preparation can make a big difference in how your Fleshlight adult toy feels. Here is the usual modus operandi:

  1. Fill the sink with warm water
  2. Remove the insert from the housing and place it in the sink for 5 minutes.
  3. Repeat if desired or for thicker inserts.
  4. DO NOT use the microwave or boiling water
  5. Pop some wipes nearby to help with cleaning; you’ll want to wipe the lube off your hands to get a good grip on your adult toy
  6. Smear the interior only with a water-based lubricant; The silicone-based lubricant will react with the adult toy and melt it.

Once you’re ready to get started, try a few different ideas like:

  • Use it as an extension of your hand as you normally masturbate
  • Jamming the Fleshlight between your mattress and the bed base for a doggy style simulation
  • Alternatively, push it down between the sofa cushions to keep it in place.
  • Put your adult toy in a shoe for unusual angles
  • Just hold it on a countertop or the side of a sofa

Cleaning Fleshlights

This takes a while; however, it is essential that this type of toy is cleaned properly, because the closed environment, heat and humidity are an ideal breeding ground for bacteria.

Run warm water through the Fleshlight after use and use a cloth and your fingers to do the initial cleaning. After this, use a specially designed adult toy cleaner and disinfectant to get your Fleshlight ready for its next adventure.

Fleshlight Stamina Training Units

These adult toys are apparently (!) Designed to help kids last longer in bed. When I first heard this I envisioned a device that somehow sensed when ejaculation was going to occur and projected a nude image of Roseanne Barr onto the nearest wall … but sadly this is not the case!

The basic idea of ​​the Fleshlight Stamina training unit is to simulate the feeling of a real lady’s tunnel of love as closely as possible, so that you are finally desensitized to the experience.

Works? Customers certainly say so! Some of the most enthusiastic adult toy reviews you’ve ever read have been written about the Fleshlight Resistance Training Unit. For example:

“I wasn’t expecting much, but I was very surprised. The Endurance Training Unit really feels good. In fact, it felt too good for me. I barely entered the thing. It surprised and surprised me at the same time.”

“This thing is the most amazing masturbator in the world, I say it is as good or better than a real pussy! Working slowly with it (training) helps you last longer … This thing is up there with the light bulb as in terms of to incredible inventions! “

“And it seems to work. I am able to recognize the signs of impending orgasm much better, and I can last a few more cycles now. Exciting news and something that did not go unnoticed by her!”

Fleshlights and hand pussies in general are a fantastic addition to the world of adult toys, and much more complicated than they appear at first glance!