How to Finger a Girl: Tips on Fingering Techniques That Will Make Her Scream With Pleasure


Some people will tell you that making a girl orgasm by fingering her is hard.

The truth of the matter is that these people have no clue what they are talking about and should be trying to figure out how to touch a girl the right way, instead of spreading misinformation. After all, just because they haven’t been successful doesn’t mean you can’t be.

The first step to giving your girl an orgasm with your fingers is your position. Position is everything. You need to select a position that gives you strength, speed, flexibility AND hits all the right spots for her.

The basics

To start, have him lie down. If you want, you can lean your back and head slightly up to see better, but your lower back and buttocks should be flat. Usually, it will be on the same horizontal level as you (for example, if you are both in bed or on the floor), however, having it raised slightly (such as a kitchen bench or table) while commuting can be a lot. it’s also fun.

Assuming you’re lying down, the first thing to do is make sure you’re both comfortable. You can be groping your girl for quite a few minutes, so make sure you’re both in a position that isn’t going to strain or hurt either of you, as that’s a surefire way to kill the mood.

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Now that you have the basics, let’s see how exactly to position your hand to give you maximum pleasure.

Obviously, before penetrating her with your fingers, you have to make sure they are sufficiently lubricated. Personally, I have my girl suck on them and saliva on them – saliva is a fantastic lube. However, you can always use water-based lube (Astroglide is my favourite) or even spit them out yourself if you want to get a little messy. Once her hand is ready to go in, hold it so her palm is facing up.

Depending on how “tight” your girl is will affect which fingers you want to use. Many times I start with just my index finger, as if I’m pointing (palm up of course), then add more fingers as she gets aroused and her vagina starts to loosen up a bit. However, she may prefer to start with two fingers from the very beginning. The best position for this is, again, with your palm flat and facing the ceiling. bend back the middle and ring fingers so that they form a ninety degree angle with the rest of the hand. THESE are the fingers you use to stimulate her. For added effect, try angling the palm of her hand so that it lightly taps against her vagina. The shock waves will drive her crazy!

Magic Fingers

Now that you have your position down, we can get to the actual fingering. Remember, you’re basically making love to her with your hand, so all the standard rules apply. Start slow and gradually speed up, talk to her, all that good stuff. If you REALLY want to make her touch the ceiling, slightly bend your fingers (like a “come here” type of movement). This will ensure that you stimulate her G-spot, and if you do it when she’s getting ready to orgasm, it will feel really, really good for her. Trust me this time.