The holidays are a great time to show that special person in your life that you are thinking of her. Whether it’s the girl in your office you’ve been looking at, a friendship you want to take to the next level, or someone you’ve been seeing for a while, the art of gifting can say a lot in a few words. Giving a gift is part of modern social conversation and the perfect opportunity to show your kindness and charm. It is a simple and generous gesture that can produce remarkable appreciation and general feelings of happiness. And who doesn’t want feelings of happiness? Here are three quick things to keep in mind.
* Buy her something that she wouldn’t buy herself. What is that luxury item that you saw recently but would never buy for her? Think interesting art or decadent chocolates. This gift doesn’t have to break the bank, it can be a fragrant candle or a beautifully made scarf. Remember to watch for their cues, women tend to talk about the things they like.
* Give it an experience. Not all gifts have to come in boxes with a bow. There are some great gifts that come in the form of special event tickets tucked into a card, or a memorable evening on the town or a series of dance lessons. These are great because it can be an opportunity to spend time with that person without the need or stress of calling them a “date.” Remember: if she’s gifting an experience, make sure there is something small for her to open. Maybe a card with tickets inside, or even a small pair of gloves, if the experience is to go ice skating.
* Use your strengths. Are you a great chef? Cook him a meal. Tennis player kicker? Teach him a lesson. Computer genius? Set up something special for your computer. Use the strengths you have in your repertoire and give him the gift of your time and energy. Women love to see a man excel at something he enjoys. Remember: make the gift official with a card that indicates your gift.
No matter the gift or your budget, don’t forget the old saying that “It’s the thought that counts.” Take the opportunity to show your kindness and inventiveness. There is one last thing to remember: do not forget to sign the card.