Top 10.5 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Disrespectful
10. Forget
He forgets about the date you planned even if you have been talking about it for weeks or he forgets to return your phone calls several times. Everyone forgets and it’s okay for her to forget things once in a while, but if she does it multiple times, it’s disrespectful.
9. flaky
You plan something with her and she doesn’t show up or has something else to do even though she previously agreed. Sure, she may have to make emergency changes to her schedule, but if she’s repeatedly late for your planned date, that’s a problem.
8.Retention
Not only does he have sex, but he shows no interest in you. She shows no interest in your activities, work or family. She emotionally detaches and shuts down her emotions from you.
7. Combativeness
Whatever you say, she says the opposite just to piss you off. You say tomatoes, she says tomatoes. Even if she doesn’t believe what she said, she says the opposite of what you say to annoy you. If you say that you want to go to the movies, she says that she doesn’t want to and that she wants to go to eat. Her combative attitude is a way of testing you just to see if she can take it to the next level #6.
6. Witty comments
By sly comments I mean that she says things that are rude and offend you. For example, you could be talking and then she calls you ignorant out of the blue. Basically, your girlfriend is insulting you and being very disrespectful. If you let her continue to be disrespectful, she will take it to the next level #5.
5. Insults
This is worse than rude comments. He insults you by giving you names like fat, dumb, or old. If you allow him to talk to you like that and insult you, he will go to the next level.
4. Public shame
So you let her insult you at home, well now she’s gotten comfortable and you created a monster. She starts yelling at you when you’re in public. For example, you’re in a restaurant and she yells at you and says, “Hurry up and order,” in a loud, disrespectful tone in front of strangers.
3. Slander
She starts talking bad about you when you are not behind your back. When she hangs out with her family or her friends, she tells them how dumb you are and how lazy you are. She might even start posting private embarrassing things about you, like how you’re a minute man.
2. Infidelity
She sees that she can get away with it and starts cheating on you. You never get mad at her for embarrassing you in public or talk or express your feelings so that she feels the need to go out with another guy.
1. Physical damage
She might feel the urge to start hitting you or even try to use objects like a knife or gun. She might even set him up to get robbed or killed. Some of the readers may not believe this is possible, but they don’t see it on the news, women trying to find a hit man or being arrested for assaulting her man. This is the most dangerous form of disrespect and I would advise you to stay away because your life will be in danger.
.5 Self-esteem
You shouldn’t let any of the above happen to you, but when it starts to affect your self-esteem, it goes deeper. The way he treats or talks to you begins to affect the way you think about yourself. This is very dangerous because it can affect you emotionally and affect you outside of the relationship. For example, you start not going out with your friends, you no longer perform well at work, or you start to get depressed.
The best way to fix all these problems is to leave the situation. I don’t care if you have children or live together, if your girlfriend or wife starts to be abusive, you should leave. You can’t fix a wrong with a wrong, so you better not try to abuse her or physically hurt her; she is not worth making your life hell or putting you in jail.