It is impossible to discuss tantric sex or sacred sexuality without also touching on some of the key tantric rituals. Tantric yoni massage is a very intimate process and one of the fundamental techniques of tantra goddess worship. This technique must be learned in great detail from an accomplished tantra teacher, as using the wrong movements can cause pain and injury.
Once a man masters the techniques involved in tantra yoni massage, he can offer his beloved one of the most satisfying erotic experiences his woman can have. Using this technique in the right way and in the right spirit can go a long way in a couple’s intimate relationship and bring partners closer than ever.
To properly understand why ancient tantra places such importance on these rituals, one needs to understand that a woman’s vagina is, in fact, considered a sacred thing. Translated from Sanskrit, the word ‘yoni’ literally means ‘sacred space/place of worship’.
The yoni is what defines the goddess of tantra as a deity worthy of worship, since it is the very source of human creation. Referring to the most intimate parts of the woman with this term brings a new dimension of respect to the relationship.
One of the main reasons this ritual is so powerful and effective is that it is a selfless service or act of worship offered by the man to the woman. There is no element of desire for personal gratification for the man: his goal is simply to bring pleasure and joy to his woman. This is a concept that is largely foreign to most people, who feel that there should be an equal measure of give and take in any intimate encounter.
Although the process of learning to administer a tantric yoni massage begins with specific instructions from the tantra master, it is also important that practitioners do so in the right spirit. One of the vital aspects of this powerful tantric ritual is that orgasm is not a goal. Although climax can occur, what is most important is that the woman experiences a deep sense of well-being and being appreciated.
Learning to administer this loving service to your woman is an important step in moving away from the objectification that contaminates most male-female relationships. The woman is no longer simply a vessel for the man’s lust: she becomes the tantric goddess that nature intended her to be. Although she may pursue further sexual activity, this should be the woman’s sole prerogative and not something she has to give in exchange for ‘services rendered’.