The presence of good and evil in your online communities


As you build your brand and then maintain it, you will get noticed by all kinds of people. Of course, you will get the right people to notice you. Those are people you want to interact with. It will also get the wrong people to notice you online.

Everyone likes to have something to say

There is no doubt that the Internet has given many people freedom and opportunities that they have never felt before. People who may not have had the confidence to express their opinions to you in person (or even over the phone) may find it much easier to be bold (sometimes to the point of being obnoxious) online, where they can enjoy relative anonymity. Of course, that ability to communicate freely can also work in a positive way.

There are many people who will take the opportunity to interact with you constructively, and those interactions will serve to strengthen the relationships you already share with those people. On the other hand, there will also be people who will not appreciate as much what you do and how you do it and will not hesitate to express exactly how they feel about it.

There are ways to handle criticism that you and your company will no doubt be the recipient of. It is important to note that negative life experiences are often the ones that teach you the most, and those experiences are often the most memorable as well. He usually takes them with him wherever he goes. It is important to understand that dealing with criticism in this context is different than simply learning how to deal with negative criticism and then moving on. You cannot necessarily apply that approach to successfully solve the problems you will face.

There are different types of “difficult” people online that you will come across and you may have to deal with each type in a slightly different way.

  • People who feel underappreciated: For many people who dare to criticize you online, it may not be as pleasant as you think. They may not really enjoy being critical; however, however that person feels that they have been wronged, they feel the need to express their opinion. Interestingly, they often gather other people together and bring them in for support. Of course, it is very true that human beings (all human beings) have the right to be treated with respect and dignity. However, it is also important that they treat you in the same way. Of course, we all know that it doesn’t always happen that way. There are many occasions when the other person forgets to be polite and behaves like a bull in a china shop. Of course, it is important that you treat the situation with as much class and good manners as possible, although that can be difficult to achieve at times. In any case, you should do your best. After all, the last thing you want or need is for the other person and their followers to tarnish your professional reputation in some way.
  • People who love listening to themselves speak: There are many people (including you) who have strong opinions on all kinds of things. However, that does not mean that the nearest rostrum is fair play and that everyone has an obligation to listen and agree with what they say. In such a situation, that person may tend to get off topic and preach about all sorts of irrelevant things. You will need to be careful around people like that. It’s one thing to have a constructive, two-way, balanced conversation. It’s another thing to be a captive audience for the person who is speaking to you and everyone else and is there just to shove their opinions down everyone’s throats. If what the person is saying has merit and is completely legitimate, then of course you owe it to that person to listen to what is being said and try to help in any way you can.
  • People who feed on gossip: These are the people who are happy to be negative and delight in seeing other people have negative reactions. They are happy to spread the negative word and really thrive on negativity. At the same time, if they have a problem with any of your products and / or services or the way you do business, you need to be prepared to understand how difficult it is to please that person. Of course, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try to please them.

conclusion

The fact is, there will always be good and bad people who are part of your online social communities. The most important thing is knowing how to deal with negative reviews effectively, and then learning from what you’ve experienced so that you can do better next time. Remember to truly listen to the other person whenever possible. They often have something valuable to say. If there is something that should be done as a result of the discussions you have with other people online, remember to do it quickly and do it well. It will create a very positive perception of you and your business.