When Ross Jeffries (the creator of Speed ​​Seduction) released the book “How to Get the Woman You Want” in 1992, there was an outcry among some of his readers. Some of the seduction techniques were deemed unethical and it was suggested to Jeffries that they be excluded in order to make the book more “acceptable” to the general public. However, Jeffries insisted that the book’s contents remained intact. “I had serious moral reservations about putting (the seduction techniques) in the book,” he said. “However, fair and unfair are relative terms.” So how do you get the woman you want into bed? You will be surprised to know that everything starts within you. The key to sleeping with the woman you want is to have what Ross Jeffries called a “super sex attitude.”

Success with women often has less to do with your specific actions with women, and more to do with your self-confidence. If there’s one thing you could do to increase your confidence with women, it’s to completely eliminate your need for women to accept you.

In order to get the woman you want into bed, you will first have to create a good relationship with her. One of the most powerful ways to create an instant relationship with the woman you desire is through this hypnotic technique called “mirroring.” The easiest way to apply this technique is to match the breath of the desired woman. Once you’ve mastered this technique, continue to mirror her tone of voice and the gestures she uses.

Once you’ve created a successful relationship with the woman you want, your next step is to set up a date with her. Many pickup gurus recommend that you first get her number and then wait a few days, call her and then ask for the date. According to Ross Jeffries, it’s much more effective to ask for an ‘instant date’.

The key to getting her to agree to an ‘instant date’ is to make the date intriguing enough to force her to say yes. The place of the date should be close to where you put it. Never ask him to come back to your house immediately. She may want to get back with you, but because of her fear of appearing too easy, she would reject you outright.

Once you have built enough comfort with her, you could invite her back to your place. Again, give him reasons to come back to you. When she’s at your house, use this technique called ‘push-pull’ to get her into bed. For example, lean into her as if you want to kiss her. So walk away. This would amplify the attraction the woman has for you. Repeat this enough times to increase the sexual tension and you will find her ready to go to bed with you.

In conclusion, in order to get the woman you want into bed, you must first create a relationship with her. Then, go for an ‘instant date’ to build comfort on top of the attraction he already has with you. Then bring her home and use the ‘push and pull’ techniques described above to seal the deal.