If you want to know how to get a woman into bed, all you have to do is tell her what she wants to hear. Experienced pickup artists use “sexual frames.” These are statements about three topics: you, her, and “us,” which tell her and set the stage for intimacy. They start off innocent, like any kind of conversation people use when they first meet; and gradually progress to the point where you’re talking about sexually intimate things. Then it’s just a matter of taking a small step to get her into the bedroom.

There are 4 great devices that work very well for sexual framing:

Stories. Stories are used to tell a girl more about yourself, to share sexual experiences, to talk about friends, or to give her a metaphor. The point is that they demonstrate characteristics about you, her, or the two of you together.

Compliments Compliments work very well to talk about her. Instead of complimenting her on the things she IS about her, you’re going to compliment her on the things she WANTS to be complimented on. This is the key to sexual framing: talking directly to her wishes and desires.

Bait, hook, reel, release reports. This is a technique where you “fish” for a bit of information about her to follow up with a compliment. Because she now has an idea of ​​how she feels about herself, she can craft that compliment to be exactly what she wants to hear. If she’s baffled, she “releases” with an inconsistency to throw things off. She then goes on to tell him something similar about you that builds a relationship.

Double ties. A double bind is a question that, no matter how you answer, qualifies you so you can start building your frameworks. For example, asking her if she is a party girl; if she says yes, tell her that you like to go out too; if she says no, tell her you like to stay home and watch DVDs too. Then, use this angle to set up the rest of your frames.

Getting women into bed is simple if you know how to build frames and gradually scale them. It’s about making the right statements, shaping her behavior, and using the tension and release to get her where you want her: in your house, in your bed, waiting for you.