While looking for love, I had a lot of fun learning some basics of body language as it relates to physical attraction. It was fun to be around someone I found attractive and see if they reciprocated how I felt. It was a useful tool during the first meetings and during the initial dates!
Body attraction signs.:
– Especially if you are sitting down, your foot is likely to point towards you
– Or his legs will cross TOWARDS you
– They will turn towards you or at least have the trunk of their body facing you (so they can turn towards you so that their trunk is at least facing you)
– They will get very close to you if they can (this will of course also depend on their culture, circumstances, etc.)
– If the two of you are on ‘talking terms’, during your exchanges he/she will touch you, albeit in a seemingly casual way (but of course there are people who touch you no matter what, so check by checking other signs of attraction)
– His head may be tilted
– They will touch their faces during the conversation.
– Their lips may be slightly parted
– They will show grooming behaviors such as adjusting their clothes, checking their face (or parts of it), adjusting their hair, etc.)
– They may touch their face, often near their eyes while talking to you or looking at you.
It’s more: a man he will sit facing you and assume a more upright and ‘square’ posture to ‘show’ his shoulders and chest, as well as (unconsciously) show off his sexual areas; may also sit or stand with legs apart and head held high and sometimes roll up sleeves (all subconscious gestures of showing off)
A woman stroke her hair or/and touch/caress her neck in your presence, or while looking at you or while the two of you are talking; she can also push our breasts in your presence.
Eye attraction signs:
– They will look into your eyes, then they will look at another part of your face, sometimes from eye to eye to mouth, other times along the length of your hair; is a way of ‘caressing your face’ with their eyes – They may look at you and then look away, often looking back when you raise your eyes or eyebrows – They may only raise their eyebrows – Their pupils will be more dilated than they normally would be in that particular environment/light, so if you can check the pupils of others in the same room/area for comparison. – Your eyes may be watery
Duplication your movements or gestures is also a sign of attraction. Similarly, if you want someone to feel comfortable, you can mimic their movements. To determine physical attractions, you don’t have to look at all the above signs, because it obviously also depends on the circumstances (where you are at the time, for example). But if you notice a lot of the signs above, he/she is attracted to you! Congratulations!
However, remember that some ‘players’ may be using body language to manipulate you. That is why, if you are looking for love and nothing less, you must learn to determine, while dating, if he/she truly cares about you and your well-being. Love and physical attractions are not the same thing!
So, you must learn to discern the SIGNS THAT HE LOVES YOU, as well as, if you are a man, the SIGNS THAT SHE LOVES YOU; That way your heart won’t break.